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Healing Out Loud's avatar

All of this 😭😭😭

The ideal mother is selfless, as in self-less, as in has no needs and no self and no existence outside of her role as mom.

People say, “but you’re such a great mom!”

And like, thanks, but I miss being seen as a person.

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Schminkie's avatar

So you’re pissed off right? I think I got that. I don’t have experience with childbirth or children. I did this on purpose. So everything in your piece comes as a surprise. Not a good surprise.

In my entirely life It never occurred to me that women were second class persons. Hardly. My family included two strong women. should one want to deem them inferior to men in any way they would make their life a living hell. Someone tried to cut ahead of her at the deli counter. You could hear her all the way from Long Island to Kansas.

Imagine a woman/mother experiencing everything you’ve experienced, but without a national health system. Welcome to America.

Ps. I hope you’ll read my first of many posts. Coming attractions: the diary of the chambermaid of Marcel Proust.

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