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Imogen Hall's avatar

For me, safety feels like the right word when it’s referring to how I feel in the relationship, but not about the man, if you get me. I don’t want to feel anxious, or like I need to be anyone different, I want to feel like I’m loved for who I am.

Now, before I got married last year I was absolutely concerned that my now husband was too safe. 😂I was terrified I was ‘settling’ because I saw so many people in marriages, where it felt like they just weren’t even bothered about each other. Or where they’d lost their entire identity as an individual.

But ultimately we’re fiery but also chill together and he excites me more than anyone I know. I frickin’ love how much joy growing together brings me! And I think he’d refer to me as a wildcard option rather than safe so that’s great 😂

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Ariadne Pautina's avatar

This! All of this! 🖤

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